When we go to a doctor or dentist, we expect them to already have gone through the process of what we are about to ask them, and we expect them to know the answers to our questions. I believe the same circumstances falls for health and wellness professionals. When we are trying to figure out the best way for us to live a healthy and well life, we want to go to someone who has experience and who knows what they are talking about. I believe for these professionals to help their patients, they need to be fully educated and experienced in their psychological, spiritual, and physical states of well-being. They need to know how to use the mind of the patients for the best outcome. They need to know from a spiritual point what is best for the patient. And of course they need to know what is physically best for the patient. Without first having your own goals and achieving them in all of these areas, you cannot fully teach and train someone else to achieve the full standards in these categories.
I need to make more time for my spiritual development in order to be fully happy with myself. I have been making more time but it is not where I want it to be quite yet. I also need to make more time for myself physically because I do not feel as whole as I used to with my physical well-being. I think psychologically I am complete, but I know that I can always use stress-reducers with everything I have going on.
I have assessed my health spiritually by finding more time to spend reading my Bible and going to church. I have found more time to teach my daughter about God, and I am finding more time to teach myself as well. I am always opening myself to learning new things about God and finding new friends who want to learn about God. I have assessed my health physically by making time to exercise more and eat healthier. I think it is always important to eat healthy and exercise no matter how little of time it is. I try and make time every morning for about 10-15 minutes to exercise. I am trying to find the time to do it twice a day as of right now. I have assessed my health psychologically by spending time with breathing exercises and clearing the negative thoughts out of my head. I am trying to surround myself with only positive impacts and throwing out the negative in my life. I am using the power of breathing and imagery to clear my head and make my mind stronger.
I would score my wellness spiritually as a 7. I think I have a strong spiritual wellness, but there is always room for improvement. I would score my physical wellness as a 6. I have been in a much better place physically but am working very hard to get back to that place. I would score my psychological wellness as a 7. I think I have a very strong psychological sense, but as with everything else, there is always room for improvements.
One of the goals I have for myself physically is to lose about 20 pounds before summer. I am not disgusted with my weight but I do want to be healthier and I do want to lose some weight. One of my goals for being more spiritually healthy is to spend more time reading the Bible and spending more time teaching and spreading God’s Word. I feel that if a life can be changed, and we have the opportunity to do it, then we should take that challenge. One of my goals to be more psychologically well is to spend at least twice a day using one of the relaxation methods and clearing my head of all things negative that are keeping me from living the peaceful life I want.
A strategy I could use to grow spiritually would be to spend at least 10-15 minutes in the morning and 10-15 minutes at night becoming more in touch with God. Even when our days are busy, we should always make time for God. I could also volunteer with projects and missions to help people learn about God and what all He has done for us. I can implement these by setting my priorities straight and just doing it. I can look throughout the neighborhood and my church I attend right now and see what all I can do to help the community to learn about God. A strategy I can use to grow physically is to leave about an hour a day to exercise. Even though time can be strenuous, we can always make time for things that will help our futures. I can also start planning healthy meals instead of just picking healthy foods here and there. I can implement these by making time to do them. I can put tasks aside that aren’t quite as important and spend more time taking care of myself. A strategy I can use to grow psychologically would be making time to clear my mind of the negative thoughts I have. I can also strengthen my mind by educating myself with something I am not familiar with. I think if we challenge our minds with something we don’t know much about, then we are strengthening ourselves psychologically. I can do these tasks by using exercise techniques such as breathing sessions, and I can find projects that interest me and that are challenging.
I can assess my progress over the next six months by keeping a chart to see when and how I have accomplished these goals. I think it is important to write down what your goals are and mark them off as you do them. I think that if I can’t do one of the for some reason, then I need to pick up where I left off the next day and just add a day to my time. I think when you put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything. I also think by telling someone what you are doing, they can help encourage you to accomplish your goals.
The strategies I can use in maintaining a long-term goal for my spiritual, physical, and psychological well-being would be to look back at the progress I made after completing my goals and realize how amazing it felt when I accomplished something I worked so hard on. Then I would look back and see how I felt before accomplishing these goals and realize that I do not want to return to that place. One big strategy I can use is to do these tasks for God and for my daughter. I think that when we have someone in mind that we want to accomplish these goals for, then that can push us further to complete it.
Hi Taya,
ReplyDeleteAwesome job on your posting! I think you have a great idea regarding how you will grow more spiritually. If you do not mind, I am going to borrow your idea on working on my spiritual wellness in the morning and at night for 10 - 15 minutes daily. I also feel that it is a great idea to keep a log or journal to make sure that our goals are met and kept. Thank you!
Sonia
Thank you for your response Sonia! And not at all! Anyone who is willing to try and find more time for their spiritual needs can borrow any ideas. I just think with everyone's busy schedule, if the time was divided into smaller portions, then maybe the goal would be a little more realistic! I think journals are amazing because not only can you keep your thoughts and feelings written down and be able to go back to them any time that you want, but you can also look back and see the progress you are making along your journey! Best of luck to you in meeting your goals! =)
DeleteExcellent post Taya! I agree totally. When you say you go to the doctor you expect them to have the answers that is so true. At the sametime, we know that they will not have experienced much of what we are going to them for. We just expect them to have the right information. But health and wellness is a bit different. You can only partly help. But if you are trying to work on the whole person, it is hard to just give information without having experiencing a lot. It sounds like you are doing pretty well with growing your integral path. I wish you the best in all you do. Your goals and strategies sound like they will keep you in check.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your response Heather! You are absolutely right about doctors. Even though they might not have had what we are going in for, we do expect them to know how to cure it! But I do agree that health and wellness is something totally different because it is a lifestyle and a way that we can change from who we are to who we want to be. Thank you so much and I still have a long ways to go, but am excited to get where I want to be! I wish you the best of luck in your path to success as well! =)
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ReplyDeleteLove the post for this week. You are right on about the doctor office, it seems we repeat the same information 3 times before we talk to the doctor lol. I like the fact this class makes us do some soul searching. I love the relaxation techniques we have learned and find them very helpful. I do however think do the tasks for yourself not anyone else. Although they can be your inspirations you still need to do them for your own well being. Great blog.
Misty Nation
Thank you for your response Misty! And I love the fact that we had to dig deep within ourselves to find meaning. I think when we are having to sit down and think about only ourselves, we discover so much we didn't know. I loved all of the relaxation techniques as well and I found them useful. And you are very right. We need to be doing them for ourselves and not for others. Because if you can't take care of yourself, then you won't be able to provide your services to others either! Best of luck to your in your journey ahead! =)
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